Whoever wrote this article (and everyone else) should go look at this How Your Race affects the messages you get. Basically, a tech at a dating sitewent through all of its data and looked to see whether race had any effect on how likely people were to reply and send messages.
This is taken from millions of messages filtering back but what they found out, at least among those people willing to go on a dating site, is as follows, and directly opposed to the anecdotes given in this article. Whether it’s due to talkativeness, loneliness, or a sense of plain decency, black women are by far the most likely to respond to a first contact attempt.
I ordered the book “Swirling: How to Date, Mate, and Relate Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed” a few days before finding your channel, so it was funny to find out you were one of the writers.
Because I was like “I want that book they talk about in the videos”, and then “hey, but didn’t I order that already” lol 🙂 I started using Afro Romance and had contact with a couple of nice women, one of them for about 7 months.
As a professional matchmaker, I’ve interviewed over 1,000 singles, and in the past two and a half years, I’ve made around 2,500 matches.
Will my “ Richard Tanne’s film “Southside with You” tells the story of Barack and Michelle Obama’s first date.
Black women reply the most, yet get by far the fewest replies.
Essentially every race—including other blacks—singles them out for the cold shoulder." The final graph in the report is a table where they ask "would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own ethnic background?
Now I am trying to find black women in my area, that makes it much easier to meet each other.
The more I see black women, the more beautiful I think they are, and I am at a point that I think about dating only black women (with the intend of getting married some day).
(italics and emphasis are mine–put there so you don’t miss it!