You may find your nights and days filed with thoughts of them, feelings of emptiness and a longing to recapture something of what you lost.
When these feelings linger for longer than 7 months after the breakup, causing anxiety, distress and even depression, it's time to recognize your obsession.
These stories served as my beacon of light and possibility.
And that’s why I think it is important to share love stories.
Typically, this sets off a dark night of the soul for the twins on both paths.
No ordinary story because neither was far from each other's mind during all those years, despite the fact they each married and had families of their own. So strong was their love obsession that the woman contacted her soulmate after she heard his wife had died.
And when her husband died only months later, her soulmate waited a long 15 minutes to make contact with her. A soulmate obsession doesn't always have a happy ending.
Now, this realisation of what has gone wrong is absolutely shattering to the stayer twin, as their twin usually rejects any, and every effort for contact and reconciliation following that point.
By this time, the stayer twin has awakened to all that this Union means, and they find it impossible to cut the invisible chord that binds the two.
You may be grieving a cherished one that has died, or you may be grieving someone that is fully alive yet they have chosen a life without you.