The world is full of breakups between people that were never actually a thing to begin with.
Thanks to the normalization of modern day hook-up culture, there’s a little bit of a phobia towards committing to anything slightly representative of genuine emotions.
Image source:i Stock Controversial opinion, I know, but I'm a pretty ardent supporter of executing a breakup vis-à-vis text message--under the right circumstances, of course.
"Boyfriend" and "girlfriend" seem to share the same fate as the now arcane "going steady." People are still dating -- sure -- but recently, would-be couples less readily refer to one another as "boyfriend" or "girlfriend," opting instead for basic , sans label.It’s an old platitude, but it’s true: Breaking up is hard to do. Breaking up with someone you aren’t even really dating, technically. Particularly if you want to end things–after all, breaking up is, by most people’s definition, the act of ending a relationship.In today’s weird, disjointed, dating/hookup/whatever culture, it’s increasingly common to find yourself in some kind of nebulous non-relationship, whether it’s a friends with benefits situation or a “just hooking up and we don’t want to talk about what’s really happening” kind of deal. How can you break up with someone if you aren’t even officially dating them?I say we were “dating” in the beginning because we were regularly going on dates right off the bat.They started off as casual, and then things got a little more serious when we became exclusive.
In a way, the lack of any “official” breakups in my life is amazing. I would like to say this is due to some kind of “no relationship” policy of mine, a life completely free of romantic drama and full of educational trips to museums and art galleries, but it wouldn’t take a genius to realize I am lying.