You start Internet stalking their new partner WAY too hard It’s funny how fast a simple “in a relationship” status can devolve into creeping on your ex’s new girlfriend’s sister’s wedding photos. For some reason your brain always tricks you into thinking that you’re in competition with the new person in your ex’s life, which is silly since A) she already has the ex and B) you don’t really want the ex anyways.
It’s a slippery slope, and no matter how strong your self-control, eventually you’re gonna end up looking at her profile pictures and the profile pictures of everyone she’s known since 2009. The fix: It’s important to remember that your relationship ended for a reason, and that no matter how similar or different you are to the you-replacement, that isn’t going to change the fact that you and your ex weren’t a good match.
I am told the biggest reason why we broke up is partly because she feels the need to "find herself again" because she feels she doesn't have any "true" friends and is just overwhelmed and lost with our seperation and stress.
The issue in our relationship was she felt I wasn't being as supportive enough helping out around the house and being more "romantic/ chivalrous".
That final nail on your coffin makes you lose all hope of winning her back and rekindling your lost love. Could you get your ex back even if she is already dating?
A simple and straight ‘Yes’ is the best answer to this!
Believe in your ability to make her fall for you and give it some good time as well. Give her enough time to figure out her true feelings for you. This new guy she has made a straight jump to is in all probability just a rebound relationship she has gotten herself into.
She has been stressed and overwhelmed with work recently.
had no idea she wanted me to make her feel more appreciated.
I understand it goes with out saying, I thought I already was showing my love.
It’s truly a gut wrenching feeling to think of your ex with someone else, especially if you are still in love with them and want to get them back.
And the thought of it just being a rebound relationship is very comforting.