Being Respectful Establishing Boundaries Being Intimate Community Q&A You may find yourself in a relationship with someone who has less sexual experience than you.If your partner is a virgin and you are not, it's very important to understand boundaries early on.Also, the thought of knowing that she hasn't been with any guys makes her much more desirable, at least in my mind.” Even though some guys might be surprised to discover that you’re still holding on to your V-card, most of them think it is very respectable.“She must be waiting for the right person,” says Garret, a senior at the University of Michigan.Will they treat you differently if they find out you’re a virgin? The guys we surveyed were all over the map on this one: 25% think it’s a turn-on, 35% think it’s a turn-off, 20% say it depends on the context (whether it’s a one-night-stand versus a more committed relationship), and 20% say they don’t care at all.Do they even want to know this personal information about you? You can stop guessing, because we’ve gotten inside the minds of 15 college guys to learn how they feel about virgins and whether or not they’d be okay with your V-card status. If it’s something more meaningful like the start of a new relationship or a long-term thing, guys consider a girl’s virginity to be a turn-on.
You’ve probably wondered how you’d mention to guys that yes, you are a virgin, and even more importantly, how they might react.Reddit, for instance, is flooded with people crowd-sourcing the best ways to land a date and lose their virginity."I just feel like I need to get this out of the way before I can actually have any success meeting people," female user allinthebattery Other posters are former virgins who return to the thread to provide advice on how to navigate the online dating landscape.Many of these people are married, of course, but still, we’re talking nearly a third of the U. What all of this means is that you’re simply not as atypical as our hypersexualized society might lead you to believe.Yes, a future partner may be surprised by your virginity, so you should be prepared to explain where you’re coming from.
You might think you’re one of the few collegiettes who’s still a virgin, but, the fact is, you’re not alone!