I told her I needed to think about it, I really like this girl but can I change her mind on this?
I came out 12 years ago and it was a struggle at times but I know I am stronger for being a lesbian and I wish my new girl could feel it too. Dating someone who is not willing to be visibly lesbian puts you back in the closet a little bit.
My friend considers herself to be at fault for her divorce, even though her ex was a horrible human being (though not physically abusive). She is going out of her way to make sure that her kids have a male "father figure" in their lives. I have tried telling her that she is enough, that the kids truly do love her, and that those of us around her are more than glad to pick up the slack, but it often falls on deaf ears.
Her kids are a preteen and an adolescent — a boy and a girl.
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My single and cash-strapped sister has not been so lucky.A while ago my girlfriend mentioned that she wanted to try strap-on sex, so we went out and bought a dildo and harness.We’re in a long distance relationship, and so we don’t get to have sex unless we’re visiting – but we do a lot of flirting, sexting and so on.My girlfriend has sent sexts of her wearing the harness and dildo and we’ve talked about using it a few times during our phone and text chats.The most recent time we talked about it on the phone, I started masturbating while she was fantasizing about how hard she would fuck me – I came, it was really hot, and it’s ignited a fire in me to actually use this toy rather than keep talking about it.
I can’t decide if it would be better to end things and find a woman who is comfortable with who she is or to be with this woman and hope I can help her feel more comfortable being out. Since this woman couldn’t give you a firm answer on whether being discreet was short-term, you can assume it’s probably “as long as I can get away with.” If you keep seeing her, you may chafe at her limitations.