So there's a guy in uni who I recenlty got drunk with at a party and he confessed that he's had a crush on me for years... I'm also shy as well, and quite inexperienced with guys (never had a relationship and never had sex) but I realise that for things go well with him, I'll have to make moves and be a bit more forward than I usually am.
This is making me nervous because I'm usually too shy to make the first move (eg go in for the kiss etc) so I just wanted to ask for advice.
If you know that your boyfriend hates going out and meeting new people, you don’t need to cut it out completely.
But you might want to balance it out with doing stuff he likes too.
The first and most important step to dealing with a shy partner is acceptance. You need to know that that’s exactly what makes you two tick!
You might be an extremely social person who loves to talk and express.
Taking Initiative Accepting His Temperament Easing His Nerves Introducing Him to Your Friends and Family Community Q&A Maybe you’ve been dating a shy guy for a few months, or maybe you’ve got a crush on a friend who is shy and you want to ask him out.
He's obsessed with surprising you in sweet, adorable ways.
A lady doesn’t initiate relationships, ask guys out or move in for the first kiss.
If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.
The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.
For instance, if he’s more of a dinner/ movie date types, then throw these kind of date nights into the mix.